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Quality In, Quality OutBy Sandi Smith You’ve heard the cliche “garbage in, garbage out.” It means that if we bring trash into a system, we get trash out of the system and no more. Is your body, mind, and spirit receiving garbage or good stuff?
But what about the other inputs we have in our lives? These are equally important to our physical, mental, and spiritual health. The other inputs in our lives are the books and magazines we read, the music and radio shows we listen to, the people we spend time with, the TV shows and movies we watch, the computer web sites we visit, and the computer games we play. These are the inputs we feed our minds with. Strive to choose inputs that embody what you want to become in life. Do we make the healthiest choices here? Examine your choices and you will gain some insight into yourself. Do you choose inputs that help you vegetate or tune out from your day? Do you select items that help you learn something new? Do you choose inputs that always agree with and support your views or are opposite from them? Do you make choices that align with your loves and passions in life? Do you choose inputs that challenge you or rile your emotions? Do you choose violent inputs to get a rush from adrenaline? Whatever you choose, you likely will become. It took me a while to move from my women’s magazines to books about the great people of our times, but I’m glad I made the switch. Instead of reading about movie stars’ gossip, I learned what Benjamin Franklin did on his Saturday nights (assess the week and make a list of how he could do better next week), or why Albert Einstein was so much smarter than the rest of us (incredible persistence, plus a natural abundance of glial cells in his brain). These choices might not turn you on as they did me, but the point is to strive to choose inputs that embody what you want to become in life.
A mentor can help to fast track your growth as long as you choose wisely. Don’t be afraid to write the author of a book or tape that just changed your life. Reach out to sports figures you admire and learn from their tenacity. Take classes, go back to school, attend conventions, workshops, and retreats, and visit countries you’ve never been to. Enrich your inputs in life, all of them, and your best self will change and grow to be what you’ve always dreamed you could. If you'd like to republish this article, please email me the article name, where you plan to use it, and when it will run. We will send you our approval and the language we need to appear at the bottom of the article. Thanks for your interest! To book Sandi to speak about this topic at your next conference,
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